A.I. is everywhere nowadays. You couldn't ignore it if you tried! But do you really want it inside your dating app? If so, what do you want it to do? How do you want it to help? And is it even really helping?
We all might fantasize about a future where A.I. not only finds you a date that you're absolutely in love with but also communicates on your behalf, makes you look great, and even schedules a date for next Tuesday! But is that really the best approach? We have some concerns, ideas, and tips on how to make the most of A.I. in your dating life.
We start by exploring the idea of A.I. in our personal lives. Recently, it seems we use it everywhere---at work, to find new information, for research, rewriting emails, texts, and more. But how do we feel about using it when it comes to personal advice and interactions?
According to our surveys, approximately 70% of people would consider using A.I. in their dating life, but with certain reservations.
While we seem open to A.I., there's a limit. From the conversations we've had, many agree that A.I. could help with a clever icebreaker or a conversation starter. But (with the exception of a small subset), people don't want to date an A.I. Most of us crave genuine human connection---we're just looking for ways to make it easier and less stressful, using whatever tools we can.
When integrating A.I. into your dating life, the general consensus is to use it like you would a close friend or family member---someone to bounce ideas off or get advice. You wouldn't have a friend write every single message for you, validate every decision, or date the person on your behalf. So don't let A.I. do that either!
Eventually, you'll meet your match face-to-face or communicate in a way that A.I. can't assist with, and you'll need to be yourself. So why not be authentic from the start? If they're not interested in your lifestyle, communication style, or passions, maybe they're not the right match for you.
Here are a few areas where A.I. can be genuinely helpful:
Using these ideas, A.I. can give you an edge in dating---offering feedback, enhancing your understanding of the dating world, and boosting your confidence. But while it's a fantastic tool, execution is key. As more apps, companies, and people integrate new technologies into everyday life, stay aware of how you can use them to your advantage. Be mindful of potential risks, and most importantly, remain authentic in your approach to dating.